10 Essential Traits Every Woman Should Seek in a Partner (3 of 6)

4. He looks out for you

This is nonnegotiable in any relationship: you should feel safe. You deserve someone who provides a steady sense of security, so you never feel like you have to defend yourself. With the right man, your guard can drop because you know you’re okay when you’re with him.

5. He’s emotionally attuned

You don’t need to remodel your partner, but influencing each other is healthy. Research shows couples are happiest when men welcome their partner’s influence. Women often do this naturally; it’s just as important that men meet them halfway and actively support their partner’s emotional well-being.