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6 Subtle Red Flags That Could Mean Your Relationship Is Doomed

Red flags in relationships can be one of the hardest things to detect, but one of the most important indicators of potential ruin. Even relationships that seem good on the surface can show patterns that signal deeper concerns. These red flags might initially fly under the radar, but ignoring them long term can eat away at trust, safety and happiness over the long haul. To learn more about signals that could become issues later, check out these six red flags and how to address them and understand the risks.

They Frequently Misrepresent Themselves

Few things feel worse than realizing that the person you are connected with is not who they say they are. Whether their dating profile is dramatically polished or their personality shifts once they are comfortable, this kind of mismatch in representation matters. This isn’t about just putting your best foot forward. This is about being inauthentic, which can erode trust over time. Why does this matter? Trust is about transparency, and this is needed to build a truly authentic relationship. If they show one face publicly but another one in private, then this can leave you feeling betrayed and unsure of who you are really dating.

How to address it: Ask them about any discrepancies you have noticed. Their response will reveal whether it is merely coincidence and if they are willing to be open about it, and if there is actually more they could be hiding.