7 Tips For Finding Mr. Right Instead of Mr. Right Now (4 of 4)

6. Recognize that how you treat yourself dictates how guys will treat you

This last one is huge. Whatever you settle for in a relationship ultimately communicates your standards to both the men you date and yourself. If you set the bar really low, you will be treated accordingly. But if you demonstrate respect, consistency, and emotional maturity, you will attract the kind of guys who embody these traits as well. If you get anything from this article, it’s that loving others starts with loving yourself.

7. If you find yourself wondering if he’s Mr. Right, we bet he isn’t!

Sure, go on a few dates with him, see how it goes. However, if you start making excuses or overanalyzing the reasons for remaining with him, it’s a clear indication that you’re reverting to your old, harmful patterns. You’ll need to let him go. Waiting for something real can feel lonely, we get it. But surely you agree it’s nothing compared to being stuck with someone who was never meant to stay. Be good to yourself.