Vacationing Solo? 12 Things Not to Do If You’re Leaving Your Guy Behind (3 of 7)

4. Don’t Overshare About Guys You Meet

Sure, the bartender was funny or that tour guide gave you extra attention—but your partner doesn’t need a play-by-play. Sharing too many stories about other men, even casually, can make your guy feel insecure or disrespected. Keep it light, and remember some moments are better left off the group chat.

5. Don’t Forget to Reassure Him

Even if everything’s fine, your partner might quietly worry or feel left out. AThat’s why a simple message like “Wish you were here” or “Just thinking about you” can go such a long way. It’s not about being clingy or checking in constantly—it’s just about being thoughtful. Taking five seconds to send a quick note shows that even while you’re off doing your own thing, they’re still on your mind.