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Vacationing Solo? 12 Things Not to Do If You’re Leaving Your Guy Behind

Taking a solo trip when you’re in a relationship can be such a beautiful thing. It’s time to breathe, to move at your own pace, and to reconnect with the parts of yourself that can get buried in the day-to-day routine. Whether you’re off for a weekend with old friends or finally taking that dream trip your partner wasn’t as into, it can feel freeing—and even healthy. But let’s be honest: going away without your significant other isn’t without its emotional weight.

It’s not just about where you’re going—it’s about how you leave and how you stay connected while you’re gone. Relationships thrive on trust, and a solo getaway can either strengthen that bond or, if handled carelessly, put unnecessary strain on it. That doesn’t mean you need to check in every hour or feel guilty for enjoying yourself. But being thoughtful, clear, and respectful goes a long way.

To help you avoid common pitfalls that can stir up tension or misunderstandings, we’ve put together a list of 12 things not to do when you’re traveling solo in a relationship. A little mindfulness now can make the goodbye sweeter—and the reunion even better.

1. Don’t Disappear from Communication

It’s so easy to get swept up in the excitement of a solo trip—you’re exploring new places, catching up with friends, maybe even just enjoying the quiet. But when you’re in a relationship, going completely off the radar can leave your partner feeling a little uneasy or even forgotten. You don’t need to be texting all day, but a quick “thinking of you” or a photo from your afternoon can go a long way. It’s not about obligation—it’s about staying close, even when you’re far away.