Four Key Behaviors That Help Wives Feel More Connected to Their Husbands (3 of 3)

Commit to Honesty as a Core Value

The final element is honesty. Without it, trust crumbles. Honesty creates an environment where both partners can be fully seen, understood and accepted.

Being honest in a relationship goes beyond simply telling the truth when asked. It means following through on promises and sharing your real feelings, even when they are uncomfortable. It is also avoiding secrecy or hiding important information, as well as communicating openly without sarcasm or cruelty.

Honesty should always be delivered with care. Truth telling that is intentionally hurtful can damage trust rather than build it. But in its healthy form, honesty can foster a sense of safety and tell your partner, “You can rely on me to be real with you.”

Research backs this up. Couples who consistently express and perceive honesty from each other enjoy greater emotional well being. They also have higher satisfaction in the relationship and have a stronger motivation to grow and evolve together.