10 Essential Traits Every Woman Should Seek in a Partner (5 of 6)

8. He’s steady and dependable

This pillar is massive and comes in three parts: financial stability, emotional stability, and relational stability. Dating someone who isn’t wise with money is a recipe for trouble—if not immediately, then eventually. On the emotional and relational fronts, you don’t want unpredictability; you want someone you can rely on, especially as you move toward shared milestones like buying a home and raising kids.

9. He’s inquisitive

A man who’s serious about a relationship will be interested in how your mind works—curious about how you make decisions rather than quick to judge. If he asks why you do something a certain way, don’t take it as an insult; he’s trying to understand you. Just make sure that curiosity doesn’t turn into a constant interrogation.