10 Must-Have Qualities Women Should Seek in a Man (4 of 6)

6. He puts a genuine connection first

Ever go on a date with a guy who looks perfect on paper—attractive, charming—but the spark just isn’t there? That’s because lasting love depends on more than surface traits. You want someone with whom conversation feels effortless, your interests overlap, and their presence energizes you. Those pieces weave the deep, meaningful connection that endures.

7. He’s emotionally present

Been with someone who gives their phone more attention than you at dinner? That’s a flashing red flag from the start. Emotional availability has to be mutual: just as you offer your full attention when he speaks, expect the same presence from him. That includes responding to texts or calls in a timely way—or, if he can’t, a considerate heads-up that he’s tied up.